How to Choose the Perfect Photographer for You
Selecting the right photographer is about more than just liking their photos—it's about finding someone who understands your vision, makes you feel comfortable, and brings out the best in you. They offer more guidance so your images showcase a range of emotions and not just lips closed and bored in each photo.
Here are a few quick tips to help you make the right choice:
Know Your Style: Whether you love bold, vibrant images or something more soft and natural, make sure your photographer’s style aligns with your taste.
Check Their Portfolio: Look through their past work. Do you see variety? Are there consistent quality and creativity?
Read Reviews: See what past clients have to say. Are they happy with their experience and results?
Meet Them First: A connection is key. Schedule a chat or meet in person to see if you vibe well together.
10 Essential Questions to Ask Your Photographer Before Booking
What’s your photography style? It's important to know if their style aligns with your vision, whether it’s light and airy, dark and moody, or natural and candid. At Ash & Thistle Artistry, we specialize in bold, vibrant, and whimsical edits tailored to the session theme. We also focus on candid, emotive images that capture your story authentically.
Do you specialize in the type of photography I’m looking for? You want someone with expertise in your desired genre, whether it’s boudoir, family portraits, weddings, or beyond. With over 9 years of experience, Ash & Thistle Artistry specializes in Newborn, Boudoir, and Fantasy.
Can I see a full gallery from a recent session? Seeing a full gallery ensures you can trust their consistency and attention to detail. At Ash & Thistle, we have multiple releases and full galleries available for you to view on our website. Transparency and quality are our top priorities.
What’s included in your packages? Make sure to ask about session length, outfit changes, props, prints, albums, and bonus options like specialty locations. Our pricing at Ash & Thistle Artistry is simple: $200 reserves your date and our collections start at $1000.
What’s your booking process and payment schedule? Understanding how to book and manage payments helps ensure a smooth experience. At Ash & Thistle, you can book your session online through our booking portal, where you’ll choose your bonus sets, collections, and session preferences. Payment plans are available. On session day, you’ll view and order your images, receiving your digital files the same evening. Plus, every booking includes a wardrobe fitting appointment; tour the studio, preview outfits, and see bonus set options.
What’s your policy on rescheduling or cancellations? Life happens, and it’s good to know your photographer’s flexibility. We allow one free reschedule if communicated at least 1 week in advance. A second reschedule is subject to a $100 fee to secure a new date.
How do you help clients feel comfortable during the session? A good photographer creates a safe and relaxing environment. At Ash & Thistle, our wardrobe fittings give clients a chance to connect with us beforehand and get comfortable. Most clients arrive a bit nervous but feel at ease by the time they’re in hair and makeup. Our active Facebook community is also a great way for clients to get to know us before their session.
What editing or retouching is included? Understand how much editing is done and whether additional edits cost extra. At Ash & Thistle, we hand-edit every image for perfection—no presets here! We focus on bold, vibrant tones while staying true to real-life colors. Temporary marks like pimples or veins are removed, but we never alter body shapes. Our goal is to help you embrace and love your true self.
What should I bring or prepare for the session? Preparation can make your session even better! All you really need to bring is one outfit you absolutely love and some basic undergarments to pair with our client closet, which includes over 400 pieces. Anything else you bring is a bonus!
What’s your timeline for delivering photos? Knowing how long it takes to receive your photos helps set expectations. At Ash & Thistle, we deliver your digital images the same evening as your session! After your shoot, you’ll take a quick break to grab a bite while we prepare your gallery. You’ll return to view your images, make your selections, and we’ll handle the editing that day. Printed products are ready within 8–15 days for pickup.
Photographer Compatibility Checklist
For finding someone who honors your body, story, and nervous system.
✅ Do they have a real website, not just social media?
✅ Is their portfolio diverse, showing more than one body type?
✅ Can you find reviews or testimonials that mention how the person felt, not just what they looked like?
✅ Do they offer payment plans without shame or penalty?
✅ Do they communicate in a way that makes you feel heard, not sold to?
✅ Are they upfront about pricing and process?
✅ Do they use language that supports consent, choice, and autonomy (not just “sexy” or “flattering”)?
✅ Are their spaces and content inclusive and body-neutral, not focused on fixing, shrinking, or hiding?
✅ Do you feel even a tiny spark of “I could breathe there”?
